Remember that Deniscia

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I am female.
This I know.
And I am 110% deserving of being treated with respect.

No arguing.
No disrespect
No being rude
Hear me out
No don't use your ears
Use your heart and try to listen
Listen to my every word
Get in your feelings
Listen with understanding
Not to respond
No to Retaliate
But to find a solution
I am not out to get you
I am not against you
I am with you
As your friend
Your counterpart
I know that this may be hard
Not just for you but for both of us
But we can get through this together

Where's the balance?
I am putting in all the work
And getting nothing in return
Sacrificing everything
And settlling
The reality of it is
No relationship is going to be perfect
But what exactly is perfect

I love myself to much to be in a disrespectful relationship. Remember that Deniscia

I have come toooooo far to retro back. Stay strong. Don't cry. Don't get hurt. No matter what.

I like him but I love myself more.

This is who I am.


I am female.

Comments

  1. UnknownApril 29, 2014 at 5:43 PM

    Thats beautiful and well written. Stay as strong as you have become and continue to grow stronger. True happiness will come soon.

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